Heidi Rain, Addiciton and Relationship Expert. Mentor, PsychoSpiritual Teacher, Founder and creator of The REIGN Recovery Method. Creator of Addictive Attachment Personality Patterns and The Rapid Detachment Method.
All problems are relationship problems at the core.
Are your relationships causing you resentment, confusion, anxiety or pain?
You’re likely running one or many subconscious Relationship Patterns.
Heidi Rain’s Addictive Patterns Test is the answer you’ve been looking for to gain radical insight into your most troubling relationships.
You’ll unlock hidden behavior patterns keeping you from the love you deserve.
Identify Your Unique Relationship Programming
Learn the hidden dysfunctional and toxic patterns that keep you stuck, struggling, or suffering in your relationships
Understand how the difficult people in your life are programmed
Learn what it takes to break free from these patterns for good
What does it take to have to create your Happily Even After? A beautiful, mutually fulfilling, joyful relationship? And what’s standing in your way?
Nobody sets out to have relationships that cause pain or suffering. We all want to be loved, accepted, valued, appreciated, cherished, respected, and adored.
So then, why are so many of us in toxic, one sided, addicted, hurtful relationships?
Why do good people end up in bad relationships?
What does it take to have the love you truly deserve?
Hey there, I’m Heidi Rain and I’ve spent the last three decades searching for the answers to these questions.
And the good news is, through seeking, I have found the answers.
After decades of mastery in the arena of addiction and relationships, though a combination of knowledge, skills, and experience, I’ve been left with tremendous insight into your unique challenges and the solutions that produce results.
The answers you have been looking for are here. Everything that’s not working is a result of an Addictive Attachment Personality Pattern.
These patterns drive you to behaviors like trying to fix others and ultimately, you feel like a hot mess express: on a runaway train of confusion, outrage, anxiety, depression and disbelief.
This is your stop. I’ve got you.
I’ll help you get absolute clarity and certainty about what to do next in your unhealthy relationship.
Answer the questions, “Should I stay or should I go?” “Why do I keep getting sucked back in?”
“Can this relationship be saved or fixed?” and
“How do I heal from toxic relationships?”
You’ll be expertly guided, every step of the way to peace, love, sanity, and yes! Believe it or not…happiness, again. I have created RAIN Recovery and it’s the answer you’ve been searching for.
Are you dealing with a toxic, or dysfunctional relationship and need to know exactly what to do to fix this situation?
Are you confused?
Do you want to figure out if this is really your person. Should you stay or should you go?
Are you determined?
Do you know this relationship is worth fixing and you want to know exactly what to do to fix this?
Are you tired? Do you keep attracting unhealthy relationships and you want to stop?
Are you ready to heal?
You know your past is still affecting you and you need tools for a breakthrough!
Are you STUCK? Therapy is nice….alanon is okay….but, you’re different. What you’ve been doing isn’t working. Traditional methods don’t line up with you. You need a NEW way to recover.
About Heidi Rain
Heidi Rain is the creator of Addictive Personality Patterns and the Rapid Detachment Method. She is the founder of the REIGN Recovery Method. Her books, speaking engagements, courses, and programs specialize in codependency, self-love, dysfunctional/unhealthy relationships, and dealing with addiction in the family. Her goal is to increase awareness of generational dysfunction through education, fostering personal responsibility through masterful coaching, and affecting lasting change by breaking toxic patterns, ending the cycles of toxic relationships and healing dysfunctional families for good.
Testimonials
Coach Heidi changed my life. I enrolled in the program after coming to the realization that some of my relationships were not healthy ones. I knew I was a good person with a good heart and couldn’t figure out why I kept drawing projects instead of partners. I consider myself an intelligent, professional kind, and loving woman but some of my relationships didn’t reflect who I was, and I couldn’t figure out why. I had to take a good look at myself. Heidi helped me realize because of my dysfunctional abusive childhood, I had become Codependent and had learned how to function in dysfunction. I learned in LYFE school that my personality attachment patterns were the people pleaser and the fixer. As a people pleaser I would sometimes say yes when I really wanted to say no. As the fixer I wanted to be the one that rescued. I was that Wonder Woman all for the sake of LOVE. Love that I was still seeking as a little girl from my mother. LYFE school helped me discover I am worthy of love without any extra, just being who I am is enough. I am enough and my value is priceless. I have learned through LYFE school how to set healthy boundaries and I have learned to see people for who they are regardless of their titles or labels.
I am FREE and I walk in my Freedom without any apologies, but most importantly I have learned how to Love and honor ME.
Grateful for my Angel
Heidi is a wizard at getting to the core of deep rooted issues and helping people navigate a path to self-love and acceptance by breaking unhealthy thoughts and behavior patterns. She was able to help me change my perspective in order for personal growth and I have since incorporated her curriculum into my own practice as a licensed clinical therapist.
Heidi was not only integral in my own treatment but I’ve witnessed her facilitate remarkable change in many people’s lives. Heidi is one of the most relatable life coaches and mentors I’ve ever been involved with and I am proud to call her my friend. Her expertise in relationships, self-worth/love and addictions combined with her personal experience and humor allow her to teach individuals how to truly redefine their belief systems and change dysfunctional thought patterns and behaviors which ultimately lead to lives of fulfillment.
As the director of an intensive co-occurring disorders program, Heidi has allowed me to be more comfortable in using my personal experience as a teaching tool and gain confidence as a leader. I often use her methods and teachings to promote discussion and I make a concerted effort to emulate her ease of connectedness in presentation style.
Heidi’s expertise combined with her ability to exercise change is brilliant and, in my opinion, unparalleled. Her efficacy is a true testament to the powerful work she does. Just ask any of her students.
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When I met Heidi I was in a horrible place. Dealing with a fiancé facing addiction and in rehab. She was the one person who would tell me like it was with no filter. She has taught me about co-dependency and learning how to break free from toxic relationships. At my lowest point, she was the hand that reached down to help me pull myself up. I cannot imagine where I would be today had I not met this most amazing soul. She is passionate about her wants to help others. And she is smart beyond her years. I truly feel that you have had to walk in the trenches to understand how to help pull others out. She is beyond one of the most intricate parts of my recovery and I value her as my coach, my confidant, and my friend.
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